Hello, straight males.
Many of you have commented that I must have very high standards and go after 10/10 studs who are followed by a harem of females, despite my constant descriptions in these posts of boys I am besotted with who are nothing like what you have in mind.
I have decided to be of service and share how men of variable looks, talents and backgrounds have succeeded with me and other women I know. I googled ‘How to get a girl to fall in love with you Reddit,’ and all I got was men egging other men on to become richer and more ripped. Newsflash: becoming a neurotic gym bro or workaholic narcissist is not how to make a girl fall in love with you.
If you only focus on yourself, you will only fall in love with yourself. There is nothing less masculine than a man who is obsessed with their own image.
Also, a woman desiring you is not the same as falling in love with you. Love requires engagement. However, the advice I give below will take care of all stages of attraction. I have not had anyone reach the final layers of my heart recently, but I am impressed by the diversity of men who have managed to have a breakthrough.
Keep this in mind: your looks, height, income, background, and superficial signifiers matter much less than you think.
Here is my 2-step guide: