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Ken's avatar

Achievement coddling and ‘the soft bigotry of low expectations’ seem like cultural attributes of WEIRD countries, but they exist for good reason. Most people don’t want to hear (or can’t handle) personal critiques, especially in regard to something they are still learning.

But I’ve learned from experience if you ask people for their honest assessment of your work (and make clear what are the standards that you hold for yourself), you are likely to receive that honest feedback - and oftentimes people will not hold back. They just need reassurance that you’re genuine about improvement and won’t take it personally.

But since you brought up the desire for criticism……you should trim and streamline your writing style to a more cohesive narrative. The voice, ideas and convictions in these pieces are phenomenal, but I sometimes have to re-read them to understand your underlying message. This unfiltered, stream-of-consciousness style works better in stand-up, but I find that the best writing tells a focused, clear and linear narrative (with a large heaping of the author’s personal style).

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Sridhar Prasad's avatar

Ichiro Suzuki said something similar. When he came here from Japan to play baseball mid career, he started succeeding very quickly. He set the single season hit record one year. When he got close to 3000 hits (for perspective, there are only 33 men in the history of Major League Baseball to cross 3000), someone said that if you counted his hits in Japan, he would beat Pete Rose (who leads all of MLB history with 4400, a number that will never be crossed).

Pete, who had earlier been supportive, said that Japan league simply couldn’t compare to MLB, as the pitching was grossly inferior.

Ichiro said in response that he had figured it out. When you aren’t a threat, he said, everyone praises you. When you are a threat to their legacy, they tear you down.

Anyway, hope this helps. It doesn’t get better even at the highest levels.

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